Category Archives: Michigan

Work Hard – Play Hard

So far this retirement gig has been hard work! We’re making the final push to pack everything in the motorhome. I thought we had done a really good job of downsizing but it turns out we still have too much stuff. In the last week, Donna happened to connect with two women who run non-profit organizations that help 1) animal rescues and 2) abused children. So between the two of them, they are taking most of what’s left for good causes. We also posted more stuff on Freecycle. This worked well. One evening we had a visit from a guy I tagged as a “Freecycle gleaner.” This is someone that shows up to pick up a particular item that was posted but ends up looking around and asking “what about this or how about that?” He was a nice guy but I had hunch when he drove up in a van full of stuff with an empty utility trailer in tow that he does this kind of thing often.

Saturday night we took a break and attended a lobster fest fundraiser at Upper Straits Lake with our friends, Bill and Cindy. It was fun; the lobster was mediocre but there was lots of it! They also had live entertainment — a classic rock band that was really good.

Sunday we packed and cleaned most of the day. I serviced the scooter while I still had a garage to work in. We finally took a break at 7pm and went to Da Francesco for Italian food. I was beat. After dinner I downloaded the Moto GP race at Laguna Seca and watched that. If we can finish packing, return our Comcast box and drop off one of my guitars by this afternoon we’ll probably hit the road this evening.

Buffet Line at Lobster Fest

Buffet Line at Lobster Fest

Large Lobsters!

Large Lobsters!

Lobster versus Bill

Lobster versus Bill

Cindy

Cindy

Donna

Donna

Classic Rock

Classic Rock

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Upper Straits Lake

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Saturday Club

It’s strange how time can seem to pass slowly yet speed by all at once. My last week at work was like that. In some of the meetings an hour was agonizingly long but by Friday it seemed like the week flew by. The passage of time accelerated throughout the day, I tried to stay on course and do the things that needed to be done but truthfully it was difficult not to be distracted.

Thursday the guys on my team took me to lunch at the Rochester Chop House. Very nice! I struggled for words and mostly just made small talk. They’re a great group. As a manager I’ve always tried to assemble the right group of people and give them the opportunities to develop and grow into their careers. These guys have a great future ahead of them.

Yesterday I had lunch with my boss and fellow managers. Again I couldn’t come up with anything to say other than the usual banter. I sent a delegate to my last meeting of the day and quietly slipped out. I went to our old watering hole (Grand Tavern) and had a few beers while some of the crew stopped by. A couple of years ago this was our Friday ritual but not so much anymore.

When I think about the passage of time it seems incredible to me that I’ve been with the same company for 29 years. Next year will mark my 40th high school reunion! I feel like the years blew by in such a rush that many things got by me unnoticed. I plan to slow my pace and take some time to smell the flowers and savor every day.

Right before I left the office I posted to Facebook “from now on everyday is Saturday.” My friend and fellow retiree, Ed Brubaker commented, “Welcome to the Saturday club.” I like that…this is a club I’m pleased to join!

The heat and humidity this past week has been almost unbearable. Since we are sleeping in the motorhome I’ve had to fire up the generator and run both A/C units for a couple of hours in the evening to cool the coach. When we go to bed I shut the generator down and run the front A/C off a 20 amp outlet by the garage. This has worked well and we’ve slept comfortably.

In a few days we’ll drive away from here and join the full-time RV world. But, before we can do that we still have some loose ends to tie up. Donna has been burning the candle at both ends to meet a writing deadline and get our household organized and cleaned up at the same time. She’s amazing. I still have to sell a couple of amps and a nice Gibson Les Paul G0. I’ve reduced the asking price on my BMW R1200RT to fire sale levels and hopefully that goes this weekend. If not, it’ll stay on consignment at BMW Motorcycles of Detroit. I’ll service the scooter while I have a garage to do it in. The forecast calls for the heat and humidity to drop over the next few days which is a relief (if the weather guessers have it right).

So, although I’m in the Saturday club, I have much to do!

Getting Wound Up and Winding Down

Last week seems like a whirlwind now. Wrapping things up at work, dealing with the estate sale and trying to carry on as normally as possible. I’ve read about the stress a major life change can create. Well, we’re making multiple life changes at once.

Retirement – I’ve held various jobs since I was 15 years old. If I only count the years in the auto industry, I’ve been getting up and going to work for more than 1,800 weeks. Now I’m counting down the last week – 4 more days as I write this. It’s a little weird to think I won’t get up and go to the office after Friday. A colleague asked me what I would miss about working – I couldn’t think of anything other than some of the people.

Selling our house and its contents – I’ve bought and sold several houses over the years and it always creates some stress. Add to that the prospect of selling all of our “stuff.” Our three-day estate sale concluded successfully last Saturday. Successfully in this case means we no longer have any furniture in the house and the cupboards are bare. We still have a few items left over that will be donated or distributed through Freecycle.org. While this was going on I still had to go to work. We had the spare bedroom closed off and I kept a few work clothes in there. Most of our clothing, kitchen utensils and whatnot are in the motorhome where we are sleeping now that our bed has been sold. But we’re still showering and cooking in the house. It will be better when everything is in the motorhome and we’re not running back and forth trying to find things.

Hitting the road full time – This is something we’ve never done before. We think we have a pretty good idea of what it will be like, but the truth is we’re venturing into the unknown. Somewhere I saw a quote that said “If it excites you and scares the crap out of you at the same time, you should probably do it.” After the events of the past few weeks, I think hitting the road will be a relief.

Yesterday we were able to relax and unwind with our friends, Tom and Nancy. We went to their place on Long Lake and took a couple of relaxing cruises around the lake on their pontoon boat.  Then Tom pulled us around the lake tubing behind his Malibu ski boat. I’m feeling it today, will probably really feel it tomorrow. We grilled steaks and enjoyed dinner on the patio. It was great way to unwind and spend our next to last weekend in Michigan. Tom and Nancy are really fun. We’ve only met them recently but it feels like they’re old friends.

Michigan was always intended to be a temporary home for us. When we moved here in 2009 due to a work assignment, we always figured it would be a four-year stint. A friend of Donna’s asked her what she will miss about Michigan. She replied that she really won’t know until we’ve gone! But despite not being altogether thrilled about leaving Arizona for Michigan, she found a lot of things to like here – from cycling through lush green summer landscape to discovering Eastern Market, Belle Isle and other gems in downtown Detroit to gourmet food shopping and enjoying Michigan cherries and peach pie. And then there was that motorcycle tour through the UP, and of course, the great friendships. I guess we’ll have to come back and visit!

Nancy and Donna

Nancy and Donna

View of their dock and Long Lake from the deck

View of their dock and Long Lake from the deck

Steaks off of the grill!

Steaks off of the grill!

After dinner cruise with Tom, Donna and Nancy

After dinner cruise with Tom, Donna and Nancy

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Dress Rehearsal

On Thursday the 4th of July, we packed our gear and drove 17 miles to Addison Oaks County Park. We had reservations for the long holiday weekend which were made back in January. This was our dress rehearsal; next time we pull out of the driveway in our coach, we will be full-timing it.

Donna’s done a good job of downsizing her wardrobe and kitchen stuff. She had everything packed into the coach that she intends to take with us. My stuff…well not so much. I just packed clothing for the weekend and essentials in the basement – a few tools, fishing gear, grill and a couple of coolers filled with beer. I loaded the scooter into the trailer but not much else in there either.

I’d pre-scouted our site at the park the week before. Dropping the trailer in the parking space adjacent to our site was going be a bit tricky I thought. Scouting the site was a good idea; I had a plan and no worries about getting myself into a position that would be hard get out of. With Donna directing, I was able to put the trailer right where I wanted it with no drama. Our site had 50 amp service and fresh water, but no sewer hook up.

50 Amp Service

50 Amp Service

Once we got settled in, we hopped on the scooter to check out the park. By now we were getting hungry so we fired up the Weber Q and put on a rack of lamb and asparagus. We also had sweet potato. As usual, Donna did all the preparation. All I had to do was grill it.

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Even though it was the 4th, fireworks were scheduled for the following night. It seems like a Michigan thing where the fireworks start the last week of June and every community has fireworks on different nights all the way up ’til the weekend after the 4th.

Friday, July 5th I was up by 7am and let Donna sleep in. I brought her coffee around 8am.  After breakfast, Donna had some projects she started on while I wandered around the park. I showered at the park facility. The showers were large and clean – 25 cents for 5 minutes. After lunch I took a short nap in front of the TV.

We had guests arriving later for dinner and the fireworks. Earlier I noticed a sign that said no vehicles would be allowed to enter the camping area after 5pm. This could be a bad deal as we were located a couple of miles from the park entrance. So I texted a message to my colleague from work, Justin Rose, and advised him of the situation. He said it wouldn’t be a problem because he and his wife Jennifer would leave as soon as their 9 month old son Andrew woke up from his nap. They expected to arrive around 4pm. Our other guests, Jason and Danielle Bates, would be cutting it a little closer as they were working and had to get the their twin boys ready. We worried that they might not make it, but they entered the park with a minute to spare.

We sat together and visited, and enjoyed appetizers. Donna prepared an excellent guacamole and a spinach dip. Around 7pm, I fired up the Weber Q and grilled Jamaican Jerk Chicken which was served with mango salsa. We also had pasta salad that Justin and Jennifer brought and an orzo pasta that Jason and Danielle made. There were also peanut butter chocolate chip cookies that Jason made; I hear they were good but I missed out. Oh well, I had a milkshake chocolate stout for dessert (Rochester Mills Brewery).

Around 10pm, we walked over to the lake to view the fireworks (it doesn’t get dark until 10 or so around here). We found a trail through the vegetation to a small private spot at the water’s edge and had excellent seats to see the show. It was a grand fireworks presentation and everyone agreed we couldn’t have found a better vantage point.

Scooter and trailer

Saturday, July 6th I was up around 7am again. I watched the news and had Greek yogurt. A couple of hours later, Donna whipped up a great breakfast of jalapeno scrambled eggs and cheese between two corn tortillas with salsa and avocado on top. I decided to take the scooter and make the 35-mile round trip back to the house to pick up a Netflix movie from our mailbox. After I returned, we rented a pedal boat and went fishing. The lake had a lot of aquatic vegetation and was a little hard to fish in some areas but with the boat we found a good spot. I caught a few largemouth bass; two of them were really fun as they had some size and put up a good fight on the light tackle. We also caught several bluegill. We released all of the fish we caught. The boat rental seemed to be expensive at $5 per half hour. I checked my watch and told Donna we were going to go over an hour. We couldn’t make it back in time so we decided to go ahead and use another 1/2 hour. When we returned the boat, I was charged only $5 total!  Not sure how that worked but I didn’t question it.

Breakfast

Breakfast

Every day the clouds would threaten rain at times but for the most part it was sunny and warm. The rain seemed to detour around the park every time. The humidity was high so we had the A/C units cranked up all day. Sunday, July 7th that changed. I woke up to rain and we had drops off and on all morning. After breakfast we started packing up. Donna worked inside the coach while I took care of the outside – packing up basement stuff like the outdoor carpet and coolers, fishing gear, etc.  I rolled up the awning and loaded the scooter in the trailer. We had everything packed up, slides in and ready to roll in an hour. This wasn’t bad considering Donna also cleaned the bathroom and vacuumed the coach during that time. We dumped the holding tanks on the way out of the park and had an uneventful drive home.

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After unpacking the coach and trailer I started working on getting things organized in the garage. I moved my tool box into the trailer and realized how much more stuff I would need to jettison. The lady running our estate sale came over so we could discuss pricing of a few items and what needed to be done by Thursday. By Saturday evening, with any luck, we will have an empty house and I’ll spend my last work week in the RV in the driveway.

I know this is a long post, but I had some catching up to do. My goal once we hit the road is try to post daily.